In this week's edition of Spotlight we turn our attention to a special segment of our population, the YBMs: Young, Black and Married. It's a beautiful thing, and the Mitchells are a beautiful couple. The Mrs. is a Spelmanite, law school graduate and published author. The Mr. is a web designer and IT consultant. They married on August 25, 2007 in their new home of Chicago. I caught up with them immediately after their return from honeymooning in Maui. Below are 9 questions with the newlyweds:
When and how did you meet?
We met initially in high school, then again on facebook 9 years later.
Kimberly, at what point did you know that Fredric was the one?
I knew he was the one after I went to see him again for the first time in Baltimore. After our first date, meal, interactions, etc, I just knew that I loved him. I didn't want to leave him.
What's the best advice you would give to single ladies out there, Kimberly?
Don't be bitter, be patient. Live your life and love will come.
Now Fredric, what's the best advice you would give to single men that may be reading?
Do everything you want to do as a single man, and set dealbreakers to find your potential partner (make a checklist). Prioritize, get them done, and have no regrets. Be strong enough to be honest with your potential partner, but sensitive enough to understand that what you 'want' isn't always what you 'need'. God is mysterious.
Around here we say love's a peach, what is it to you?
Love is a roller coaster ride that you never want to get off of.
Aside from a wonderful relationship, what else do you two have going on in your lives?
Well, we are editors of " Young Black Professional Guide <http://ybpguide.com> ", a blog that we started last October to give advice, opinions, and support to Young Black Professionals. The posts and discussions that we've had cover a broad range: politics, race issues, tech news, education, finances, and more. About 4 contributors write on the guide each week. Kimberly is working at the Mitchell Law Firm with her father-in-law and is also in the process of forming a 501c3 foundation. Fredric works in the IT Department at Northwestern Memorial Hospital in Chicago and has recently established his own web design company, Bright Plum <http://brightplum.com> , which Kimberly helps manage. On the personal side, we are just trying to wind down from all of our wedding chaos, focus on our goals, and (literally) get our house together. We have many more DIY home projects to go!
Kimberly, describe Fredric in one word.
Mature.
Fredric, what does Kimberly mean to your life?
Kimberly is my best friend. She makes me smile, I love looking at her, and she challenges my mind. Her presence is easy and her eyes are sincere.
Whats next for the two of you?
What's next? More traveling, more fun, and (eventually) more family!
There you have it ladies and gentleman! Let the Mitchells be a motivation--both personally and professionally to us all...
If you'd like to contact the couple please email ncdecapres9900@hotmail.com
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