Lesson Learned: Family Ties

In the intensity of getting to know a significant other we often neglect getting to know their families. This is a huge mistake. The family that raised, taught, and nurtured your beau is so important to who he/she is and who he/she will be with you. Not only does taking an interest in your signif other's family show him or her that you truly are interested in loving them on a deeper level, but it allows you to learn more about why he does what he does, acts how he acts, and says what he says.

Ever wondered why your girlfriend never says the words I love you but acts like she does? Maybe her dad never told her, but chose to show her in other ways. Does it bother you that your boyfriend doesn't hug and isn't all that affectionate? Maybe he and his mom have that same kind of "hands off" but loving relationship. Just because you and your family do things one way doesn't mean that another family's way of doing things is wrong. Spending time with the family will both teach and strengthen. Its not about making a good impression (although that's a plus) its about making an informed decision.

There's nothing better than loving every part of your man, his mother included. So whether its for Christmas, or just for Sunday football, head on out to see the fam...you won't regret it. . . (besides, if your boo won't introduce you to the fam, well, you've got other problems on your hands)!