Hello lovers and friends...im travelling until Sunday...posts will resume as normal then and I'll be launching the new column..."been there done that."

Off My Chest

If you listened to the Frank and Wanda morning show today maybe you were as disgusted as I was. The "scrupples" discussion of the day was spawned by RayJs book to be released claiming that he's slept with over 1100 women. Thats not a type-o...ELEVEN HUNDRED. When did numbers like this become impressive? Is he some sex symbol or "sex machine" now? No, he's more likely to be an STD-infested whore. I'm so not impressed by this behavior. And lets not forget the double standard. While many men will tout him for being such a sexual guru, when Supahead or any other female comes out to say the same thing, she's immediately a ho. Lets try to get these numbers down ladies and gentleman. When you can no longer count your sexual partners on both your hands and toes (and thats giving you some leeway) it may be time to take a sabbatical. By the time your spouse gets you you'll be as riden as a 1967 Chevy.

ATL Celebrilove: Keyzy

Despite breakup rumors, Keyshia Cole attended Jeezys D-list bday party last weekend. They don't look too in love, maybe the breakup rumors are true. Evidently the bandaid and scratches Jeezy's rockin' are a result of a car accident he had earlier that night. If thats true, thank goodness he's ok. (For more pics see ybf.blogspot.com)

Notable and Quotable

"The Love Bird is 100% faithful to his mate, as long as they are locked together in the same cage."

-Will Cuppy

Featured Articles: BackSlidin'

Thinkin' about going back to your ex...read this first.

http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=5920&TrackingID=523934&BannerID=566942&menuid=6&GT1=10486

Upcoming Events for You and Yours

A few upcoming events to be aware of:

• Mike Epps and Rickey Smiley are at the Fox this weekend (Sat. and Sun. shows on sale) See Ticketmaster.com

• R. Kelly will be in concert with Keyshia Cole and J. Holiday on Nov. 15th at Philips Arena. Tickets go on sale Friday.

Letter to My Ex: Soup's Engagement

Dear "Soup",

If your latest relationship status update on facebook is correct, then I should be congratulating you on your recent engagement. You are actually the first of my exes to get engaged. While some would expect that I'd "feel some type of way" about that, I really don't.

Our relationship was a weird one, and in fact, you were the weird one. From your style to your "preferences" I never really figured you out. You were never sure if you were ready to commit and I finally grew tired of your yo-yoing me around.

We did have some great times partying together. (I still thank God that he brought me through those holidays in the tri state area). Your friends were my friends and I also take pride in the fact that before me you were damn near an atheist but immediately after me you got baptized. (Snaps for me bringing souls to Christ!).

You tried to rekindle a few years later, but I never really wanted to go down that road with you again. Based on the man I'm in love with today, I don’t really see why I was ever so attracted to you. Maybe it was just a freshman phase.

Anyhoo, I checked out the pics of your fiance, and, well…shes "cuterish." Kind of like Usher going from Chile to Tameka..a slight downgrade, but hey, if you like her, I love her. No hard feelings, in fact, no feelings at all. Maybe this means I never really loved you as anything more than just a friend. Best of luck in married life. Don't worry about sending me an invitation, I think I'm busy on your wedding day.

Two Fingers.

Featured Articles: The Science Behind Meaningless Sex

So as if there isn't a need to develop a cure for AIDS and cancer and everything us that ails our community, researchers decided to research the "friends with benefits" relationship...or as we call it around here, being a splack.

http://www.ajc.com/health/content/health/stories/2007/10/01/sexfriends.html

Notable and Quotable

"Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love."
-Albert Einstein

Notable and Quotable

Love, true love, is that which can give the mostwithout asking or demanding anything in return.
~ Mazie Hammond ~